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The Gentle Domme

Glorifying the Feminine: No "Sissy" Humiliation

 
 
 
 
 

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My name is Miss Vivian. I’m in my mid-forties, and I’m a lifestyle Domme, which basically means I like practicing D/s for my enjoyment in my personal life. I have a background in teaching, and I stumbled into doing Niteflirt through writing erotic femdom stories and my gentle femdom blog, in which I talk about BDSM, kink, and F/m relationship dynamics.

In real life, I consider myself a “gentle femdom,” although what that means depends on whom you ask! But here on Niteflirt, I sometimes give in to my slightly meaner desires. I love sweetly mean verbal humiliation. I am quite the nurturing Domme, and I do giggle a lot. I adore hearing your desperation and frustration.

Things I won't talk about are BBC and fetishizing or being derogatory toward trans women. Those are both hard limits for me.

I've also evolved in my feelings about “sissy” play, and I don't like that term anymore. (You will find some of my older audios with that title, but I don't make them anymore.)

I think being feminine and having feminine qualities can be hot and fun, and I don’t find it humiliating. I find those views misogynistic and honestly kind of dull, and I’d rather not use that word and focus on what’s exciting about embracing your femininity. We can be more imaginative than that, and you may find you don't need the shame anymore to feel good.

I also know that a lot of people who enjoy feminization can have some gender dysphoria. I'm not trans, but I have some experience with this, so if you're looking for someone to talk to about those feelings, I'm also a soft space for that.