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You Can Call Me Miss Vivian

My name is Miss Vivian. I’m in my mid-forties, and I’m a lifestyle Domme, which basically means I like practicing D/s for my enjoyment in my personal life. I have a background in teaching, and I stumbled into doing Niteflirt through writing erotic femdom stories and my gentle femdom blog, in which I talk about BDSM, kink, and F/m relationship dynamics.

In real life, I consider myself a “gentle femdom,” although what that means depends on whom you ask! But here on Niteflirt, I sometimes give in to my slightly meaner desires. I love sweetly mean verbal humiliation. I am quite the nurturing Domme, and I do giggle a lot. I adore hearing your desperation and frustration.

My Favorite Things to Discuss

While I think most submissive men can have fun with me, you’ll probably like me best if you lean into the cerebral, enjoy teasing, and don’t expect me to just scream at you that you’re a pathetic little cockroach who should lick my boots. But, I mean, feel free to lick my boots. They do always need cleaning.

I talk about all of the usual femdom stuff. My favorite kinks tend to involve some form of orgasm control, like edging, ruining, chastity, denial, premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction, hands free orgasms, etc…I also like teasing men about their small penises and cuckolding fantasies. I like the fantasies about using men as mindless objects, and I also do erotic guided mental stimulation. (Although let’s talk a little before we just jump right into that.)

But I basically get off on reactions. So even if a kink isn't MY kink, if it's clear that it gets you excited, it will probably get me excited too.

What I Don't Enjoy

I DON'T DISCUSS BBC OR BEING DEROGATORY OR FETISHIZING TRANS WOMEN. NO "SHEMALE" OR "TRANNY" STUFF. I ALSO DO NOT LIKE “SISSY” PLAY, WHICH IS DIFFERENT FROM FEMINIZATION. I DO NOT FIND IT HUMILIATING TO BE FEMININE.

I like positive feminization and bi encouragement. I’m happy to encourage you to be what you want to be and do what you want to do. And I do have a special place in my heart for love addiction, homewrecking fantasies , and basically ruining you for all other women.

The Nerdier the Better

Weird kinks? Bring them on, as long as they don't violate Niteflirt's TOS. The dorkier the better. Let's share hot hentai.

I also just like talking—about kink, relationships, good tv—before, after, or in place of sexy times. I am currently obsessing over Agatha All Along.

So Much Content to Browse

I have A LOT of content. Over 450 audios at this point , and some sexy photos of myself. (I do not show my entire face.) I also really like making custom audios , so feel free to ask me about that. I don’t usually have a set schedule, but I tend to be on during the day unless I’m having insomnia. If I’m not on, just send me a chat message, and we can set up a time to talk.