When you're a closeted cross-dresser or sissy,
it can be cathartic to talk things out with a mature woman who "gets you."
And make no mistake--I get you (see "About Me" below).
Why Call Me?
- * Talk with me about your cross-dressing history and deepest desires.
- * Share your most intimate thoughts, goals, and secrets--even those you're keeping from your therapist.
- * Let me coach you about sexuality, gender identity, erotic skills, wardrobe, relationships, alternative lifestyles, and more.
- * Model or play for me on cam while I watch. (One-way webcam for this listing. Two-way webcam is available by appointment at a higher rate). Send a chat message for the link.
- * Rely on me for guidance, education, and accountability for your journey into feminization, chastity, pegging, cuckolding, or other kinky fun.
- * Call me for intelligent talk about sex, relationships, and real-life kink; transpersonal coaching; and guided meditative fantasy.
- * Enjoy my company to help you focus and get things done (ADHD body doubling)
- * I do not engage in role play, humiliation, degradation, or body worship fantasy involving me.
Want a Voice Sample? Listen to one of my recorded listings by the minute:: 
About Ms. Ava Durga
I'm a retired prodomme who specializes in the personal, mental, spiritual, and sexual development of cross-dressers, sissies, pantyboys, transfemmes, and people with nontraditional erotic desires.
I'm well educated in adult sexuality, BDSM, and alternative relationships and lifestyles. Since finding the kink community in 2001, I've been privileged to have learned from, and been mentored by, some of the best sexuality educators and dominants in the country. I've worked with hundreds of feminizing males over the years, mostly through my work with The Sissy Parlor, and also socialize and party with CD and TG friends, which makes me privy to their adventures and secrets. I'm also formally trained in using meditative coaching and trance states for sex problems.
So, yes, I'm the real deal. And I know things.
My approach as a Mistress is a bit different: I will inspire, guide, encourage, and sometimes push you into becoming your best femme self. My kink is to help bring forth the hidden, softer, sexier you without verbal humiliation. To help you fully appreciate your feminine sensuality... to reach in and liberate the receptive female energy buried deep within you that aches to be fulfilled and released...to learn the secrets of womanhood.
To be free. To savor every bit of your juicy, sexy self. And love it.
It's not my style to role play, humiliate you, call you a worthless sissy faggot (other than as a term of endearment),
or to shame your craving to wear lingerie or service men.
I have other ways to help you develop and reach your goals.
Call me today.
Sample Conversation Topics
Can I tell you about my first time (fill in adventure here), Ms. Ava?
Can I show you some of my favorite outfits, Ms. Ava?
Can I tell you my favorite fantasy, Ms. Ava?
Can I read you a naughty story I wrote, Ms. Ava?
Why do I like to wear women's clothes?
I'm straight in the rest of my life, so why am I fascinated with penises when I'm en femme? Does that make me gay?
And if I do ...can you help me if I like it too much?
Tell me about pegging and strap-ons and anal training, Ms. Ava!
How can I make myself more sexy and feminine?
What's so appealing about chastity?
Should I tell my wife/girlfriend? How can I find partner(s) who will accept me?
Can you give me some shopping, wardrobe, and makeup tips?
Can we talk about alternative lifestyles: polyamory, open relationships, swinging, cuckoldry, BDSM?
Call me today.
Schedule
I have no set schedule but am often online Mondays and Fridays during business hours (U.S. Eastern). If you see my “Call Now” button, call me! If not, send me a chat to see if I can take a call. To request an appointment, send me a chat message.
Webcam: I Like to Watch
I ADORE talking and watching you dress up and/or play on webcam and will happily watch you on this listing with my camera off. (Two-way video sessions are available by appointment.)
Do You Like Giving Sensual Gifts?
Of course you do....giving pleasure (especially to a Mistress) is in your sissy nature. If you're pulled in that direction and want to make me smile, here are some ways you can show it:
Buy Me a Leisurely Breakfast of Coffee and Eggs Benedict with Extra Hollandaise ($25)
Buy Lunch for Me and a Mistress Friend ($50)
Treat Me to a Deep Tissue Massage ($100)
Pamper Me with a Special Spa Day ($250)
